«Letters from LIFE» ✍️

I know there may have been times in your life when you’ve
stopped dancing, stopped singing, stopped being yourself
because someone was watching you. Judging you.

And you are not the only one to feel this way. But I can’t help thinking that we’ve got it all wrong.

We’ve been taught that we must only be ourselves if it suits other people.

We must only sing if it sounds pleasing to those listening.
We must only dance if it looks good to onlookers.

But we are so wrong.

The birds sing – not because we might listen –
but simply with the joy of being alive.

And the trees dance in the wind – not because it looks good for us –
but because they are alive. Living in the moment. Whatever the moment may bring.

So sing as loud as you wish
and dance as much as you like.

You do not exist for the enjoyment of others.

You exist to be alive.

Properly, fully, beautifully alive.


Becky Hemsley 2023
I’m in love with this artwork by Gillian Eilidh O’Mara Artist 🥰

‘Alive’ is from «Letters from Life’ https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CHL9MZC1?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_7MHZ6PG9GJY53219VD1T

STORY OF FROGS (moral lesson of the day)

«A group of frogs were traveling through the forest when two of them fell into a deep pit. The other frogs gathered around the pit and looked down, seeing how deep it was, they told the two frogs that there was no hope left for them.

However, the two frogs decided to ignore what the others were saying and tried to jump out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that it was too high and they would never make it, but the two frogs continued to jump as hard as they could.

Finally, one of the frogs took heed of what the others were saying and gave up, falling down to his death. The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could, and eventually, he leaped out of the pit.

When he got out, the other frogs asked him, «Why did you continue jumping? Didn’t you hear us?» The frog explained to them that he was deaf and thought they were cheering him on the entire time.

The moral of the story is that words have the power to lift us up or bring us down, so we should always be careful with what we say to others. Our words can inspire and motivate others to achieve great things, or they can discourage and bring them down.»

EYA Oliver Uchenna®️

If you struggle with procrastination, read this.

Strategies to overcome procrastination:

  1. Concentrate on forming habits by taking small steps forward everyday. If you want to finish a 500 page book. Start by reading 10 pages daily, not 100 pages daily.
  2. Just start working:

Force yourself to start and to make the first step. The hardest step is always the first step. Once you take the first step you forget about procrastination and the job gets done.

  1. Consider your energy levels.

Take regular breaks throughout the day (walk, stretch, eat, water, nap, etc.). Find your peak productive hours and push yourself. When your energy is getting low take those breaks.

  1. Find ways to have more energy.

Get enough rest (7 – 8 hours), eat a healthy diet, exercise a few times a week, drink enough water, etc. Low energy typically leads to procrastination.

  1. Overcome the fear of failure.

The fear of failure can lead to procrastination. Although, failure is a key component of success. You can’t have one without the other. If you want to succeed faster, you have to fail more. Learn from those failures and thrive.

  1. Make sure perfectionism isn’t holding you back.

Trying to get it perfect will lead to procrastination, and understanding that nothing will ever be perfect will help you beat procrastination. By breaking the habit you will go to places you would have never imagined before.

  1. Create a list.

Lists will help you feel like you’re doing something, and crossing something off as «DONE» will keep you motivated. Making a list will reduce the risk that you forget to do something.
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Signs of a Toxic person you shouldn’t ignore.

1. They always remind you of your past mistakes to keep you down.

2. They reach out when they need you and ignore you when you need help from them.

3. They put people down to feel better about themselves.

4. They act superior and entitled.

5. They don’t take responsibility for themselves or their lives.

6. They lack understanding of boundaries.

7. They lack empathy.

8. They leave you feeling emotionally exhausted after an encounter with them.

9. They try control you by guilt tripping.

10. They never apologize.

11. They are easily jealous.

12. They give backhanded compliments.

13. They’re overly defensive.

What Mistakes Should People Not Make In Life?

1.. Why do your love not give you attention? Because your attention is abundant. You give it away easily & to everyone : Unlimited supply. Unlimited supply = Zero Value.

2… When you’re dominating life, keep yourself grounded . It’s so easy to forget your roots & destroy your foundation — this often leads to downfall.

3… The biggest threat to men as they move through adulthood isn’t smoking or obesity . It’s lack of strong networking with other high value men.

4…. You’ll automatically look hotter than 90% of the population just by cutting junk food & working out.

5… Everyone is desperate for “happiness & bliss” but we try running away from pain.

6… Don’t want to harness pain ?? Nobody said being a MAN would be easy . Seek purpose & meaning to achieve happiness,

7…. Trust, loyalty , respect . Mess up with one & you lose all three.

8…. Internal dialogue rules all . If we can maintain poisonous optimism in the face of everything falling apart around us nothing is impossible.

9… Boundaries are a criminally underrated trait of men/women. Very few set them , & even Fewer follow through on them . If you haven’t already , create one for family , friends & opposite sex.

10… It’s not our job to to try to change or fix people. It’s to accept & love people as they’re,
You can solve lot of problems by being less impulsive & by not reacting . Your reaction is what keeps negative thoughts alive.

✍️ Web. Blessings 🌞

✨10 FACTS THAT YOU NEED TO REALIZE…..✍🏾

  1. As you get older, you choose the people that you accept in your life. You do not want to waste your energy trying to connect with someone, and it will not prosper into a relationship that is worth keeping.
  2. You can’t stop people from saying things about you. It is not your responsibility to change their minds. You only have to keep on doing what you do best. For as long as you are not hurting anyone, then there is no need to explain yourself.
  3. You don’t need so many friends in your life. You only need a few but are genuine with you. You cut off people in your life who do not respect you.
  4. You are a work in progress, so there is no need for you to be hard on yourself. You have to continue learning and embrace that you will never please everyone.
  5. Kindness goes a long way. If you have nothing good to say, it is better to keep your opinions to yourself. Allow people to grow and learn from their past mistakes.
  6. Those people who know you better will stay with you no matter what. These are people that you have to keep because they have the purest intentions for you.
  7. Maturity is to prioritize your needs over anything. For as long it can serve its purpose, you don’t feel the need to buy a new one.
  8. Embrace the fact that we outgrew people. Some of them do not stay because they have other priorities. You don’t stop them, you let them go.
  9. You choose your battles because not everything is worth your time and energy. You would want to protect your peace of mind than engage in drama.
  10. You choose your happiness more than anything. You don’t let people define your success. You make the most of every day because life is fleeting. You chase your dreams, not people anymore.”

THE REAL LIFE 🌍

To be honest, life is so much better when you look closer at the small fragments of blessings that have been given to you.

When you appreciate the little things in life you allow happiness to come into your heart without even noticing it.

The simplest things in life that we often don’t appreciate like when you wake up in the morning with a smile in your face, when you do household task then you felt good and productive,when someone prepared a breakfast or coffee for you, when someone educate you about the topics you don’t know, when you arrived safely on your home, when your parents and relatives give you that soothing hugs and kisses that erase all your worries and exhaustion away.

When you start focusing on the things that you have than focusing on the things that you want to have you feel the warmth within your heart and will realized how truly blessed you are.

And I think that’s the truth about genuine happiness, your ability to appreciate everything around you without doubting yourself if you deserve it or not.

✍️ EYA Oliver Uchenna®️

HOPE 💓🙏🫂

There is always suffering in living. But I realized that there is also hope, and we must never lose sight of it. Because once we lose sight of hope, that’s where our lives start to crumble. We start thinking negatively, and we never know what to do to make ourselves feel better. It’s actually hard when we are lost in the dark and can’t find any light. It feels like we’re about to die at any moment, and it’s all because of loneliness and pain.

Sometimes, no matter how hard our situation is, we must force ourselves to hold onto something that gives us a little hope. If we feel like giving up, we must look back at the reasons why we once chose to keep going. But of course, sometimes we can’t convince those who have already given up on themselves. All we have to do is be there for them. All we have to do is give them hope again. Show them love and kindness, and make them feel that they are worthy.

There is always suffering in living. But there are also some people out there who will make us feel that we are not alone while we suffer. We might sometimes lose the courage to live, but the most important thing is that there is still a little part of us that wants to stay. Because sometimes, just like what they say— we don’t really want to die; we just want to be saved.

✍️ Shiori X. Journey of Life.

Blessed and happy evening from Spain 🇪🇸

This message is for anyone who is drowning.

When you’re barely staying afloat—trying to juggle work, family, friends, schedules, health, and emotions—the last thing you need is for someone to hand you one more thing to carry.

But what if that someone is Jesus, and what if that thing is a life raft?

Spending time with Jesus isn’t just one more thing to add to your checklist. It’s THE thing—the buoy—that’s going to keep your checklist from dragging you under.

In Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus says, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”

Jesus is not a life coach. He’s a Savior. He doesn’t just want to help you cope with the water filling your lungs. He doesn’t just want to stand on the shoreline and give you technique advice about how to get your head back above the waves. He wants to dive in and pull you up out of something so deep it will kill you.

Sympathy says, “I’m sorry you’re in that situation.” But sympathy isn’t what Jesus operated in. Over and over again, Scripture tells us Jesus was moved by compassion. And compassion doesn’t say, “I’m sorry you’re in that situation.” Compassion says, “I want to change your situation.”

Jesus has that same compassion for you today. All He needs you to do is come to Him, and let Him be your life raft.

His yoke is easy. His burden is light.
Sit with Jesus, and find your rest.

Blessed and Happy afternoon 🌞

JOY CHOSE YOU😀😄😃

Joy does not arrive with a fanfare,
on a red carpet strewn with the flowers of a perfect life.

Joy sneaks in, as you pour a cup of coffee, watching the sun hit your favourite tree, just right.

And you usher joy away,
because you are not ready for it.
Your house is not as it must be,
for such a distinguished guest.

But joy cares nothing for your messy home, or your bank-balance,
or your waistline, you see.

Joy is supposed to slither through the cracks of your imperfect life,
that’s how joy works.

You cannot truly invite her, you can only be ready when she appears.

And hug her with meaning, because in this very moment, joy chose you.
♥️

Donna Ashworth

Art by Plus Love Designs.

From WILD HOPE: healing words to find light on dark days ♥️